I was just sent an email which is considered funny about being a bitch before your coffee and still being a bitch after your coffee. The world has accepted that being a bitch or a jerk is something to be proud of. Please do not think of yourself as anything other than loving. You were created by love to be love and to experience love. Thought is proactive. It is impossible for thought to NOT take form and produce action. I am not making it up. It is the truth just like the world was not flat.
The practice of putting someone in their place, winning useless arguments, putting extreme effort into making another person wrong so you can be right, etc. is considered taking care of business, not letting anyone walk over you, and being strong. The results of these actions are immutable. Not only did your actions impact another person, it also impacted you whether you are aware of it or not. Your true nature is already burdened under desires and attachments don’t burden it with incorrectly labeling yourself.
Be the love that you are naturally.